A Friend In Need

23 Aug

raymund |  August 23rd,2010 | mourning |  2 comments

"A Friend In Need"

If you have a friend who is mourning the loss of a loved one, don’t be  scared to talk about it. Most people welcome the opportunity to talk
about their sadness without feeling they are being a burden. But take    your cue from them: Broach the subject gently ; if they seem unwilling
to open up, it may be that are still in a very private phase of  mourning. Once they reach the stage of wanting to talk, chat together  about the person who has died. Be honest: Discussion that  acknowledge the deceased’s qualities-both good and bad-promote  healing. Ask how the loss has affected your friend, encouraging him or  her to grieve. If your friend had unresolved problems with the  deceased, he or she may be feeling a great deal of guilt and regret.  Talking this over and allowing the bereaved to express these emotions  is an important steps in accepting death. It is easy to confuse grief with despression: Do not try to cheer up your friend as this impedes the natural process of mourning. Also, avoid discussing future plans until the initial stage of grief have passed.

Friendly Bacteria

23 Aug

raymund |  August 23rd,2010 | bacteria |  No Comments »

"Friendly Bacteria"Not all bacteria are harmful. Humans and some bacteria have envolved a symbiotic  relationship-living together in a way that benefits both of  them. Hundreds of different types of bacteria live within the body in equilibrium, some  producing important vitamins, others counteracting harmful bacteria. Fungal infections and some bowel disorders can develop if this equilibrium  is disturbed-for example, following a course of antibiotics that destroy both good and bad bacteria. Foods that are high in “friendly bacteria.”  such as yogurt with live cultures, can help to restore bacterial balance in the body and improve digestion and bowel function.

Learning From Experience – There Is a Better Way

16 Aug

raymund |  August 16th,2010 | Learning From Experience |  6 comments

"Learning From Experience"

Personal experience-both good and bad- can teach us valuable lessons. But is it true that experience is the best teacher, as the saying goes? No, there is a superior source of guidance. The psalmist identified it when he said in prayer: “Your word is lamp to my foot, and a light to my road way.”- Psalm 119:105.
Why is learning from devine instruction far better than learning from personal experience? For one thing, learning only from experience – trial and error-can be both costly and painful. It is unnecessary. One reason God’s Word excels as a source of instruction is that it contains the oldest and most accurate account to human experience. You likely realize that painlessly learning from the sucesses and failures of others is preferable to repeating their mistakes. More important, in the Bible, God provides us with superb laws and guiding principles that are unequaled in reability. Surely,learning from the wisdom of our loving Creator is the best possible way.

Vulnerable Viewers

16 Aug

raymund |  August 16th,2010 | vulnerable viewers |  1 Comment »

"Vulnerable Viewers" Nowadays many children, films, television, videos, DVDs, electronic  games, and the Internet are a normal part of life.A recent report says    that “according to some estimates, the times spent by children and  young ones using or watching the media is up to 20 and 30 times  greater than the time spent associating with their family.” Sadly, this  exposes children to much harmful material. In some lands the  authorities try to protect children by establishing age limits  and ratings.  According to the report, however, children and their  parents do not always understand the ratings, or they tend to belittle  their value. In addition, many movie theaters and video-rental stores  are known to disregard the age limits.  Besides, some programs and  films are not even rated. One of the teacher surveyed observed: “It seems that students do not always consider the  material violent if there is no blood in it.”Many video and computer games– and even cartoons designed espicially for  children–contain potentially harmful material. The reportstates tha each household carries “the main responsibility  for the films and television programs children watch.” It concludeswith a challenging question: “Do we as adults have  the will, strength, and means to protect children from the harmful effects of the media?”

Has Human Guidance Failed?

16 Aug

raymund |  August 16th,2010 | guidance |  No Comments »

"The Human Guidance" Who created all things? If your answer is “God,” then you are in the  company of millions who believe in the Bible, the Creator.
Yet, many who believe in God have difficulty accepting that he is actively  involved in solving mankind’s problems. Is it realistic
think that will bring relief to humankind? Many find no reasonable  evidence that this is so. For thousands of years, humans  have experemented with countless self-help methods in the search for  solutions, leaving God out of the picture. But have humans found the soutions? Or are the problems getting more serious and difficult to  resolve?
One expert puts in this way: “Ever since the Industrial Revolution, the developed countries have over-exploited the  world’s natural resources through unsustained patterns of production and consumption, causing damage to the global environment, to the  diffirent of developing countries.” Man continues to ruin the earth.

Time Will Heal Your Broken Heart

04 Aug

raymund |  August 4th,2010 | Time Will Heal Your Broken Heart |  5 comments

Healing a broken heart is not easy. You need to know the different management of pain. Knowing what is your level of relationship may help you to know how many days, months or years that could take your pain away.

Despite of what level is your relation, the most important is you need to move on. If is important to keep moving forward.

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Apologize, Apologize, Apologize

03 Aug

raymund |  August 3rd,2010 | apologize |  3 comments

"I'm Sorry" It’s really very simple, but so very hard to do. When you make a  mistake, apologize: “I’m sorry. You’re right. I did forget to pick up the  cleaning. Please forgive me.” “I’m sorry I yelled. I know I scared you  you.” “I’m sorry I wasn’t listening. I do want to hear what you’re  s  saying.”

Acknowledging both your flaws  as a person and also your specific  boo-boos-the small and big mistakes, the rotten little things you do or  forget to do-is the great janitorial broom of a good relationship. It   clears the debris from the path to your loved one’s heart, a path that  can all too easily get cluttered with nagging little resentments.  apologizing is a way of keeping current with your relationship, of making sure that  the two of you aren’t loving through a window so fogged by old complaints that it’s impossible to see or be seen clearly by one another. Apology consists of three essential parts: stating your crimes by name, saying you’re sorry, and asking to be forgiven.It fires radically from defensiveness. When we are defensive,we become lawyers for our own case:”I did it because…,” “I didn’t mean to do it,”"He, she,or it made me do it,” “it isn’t what to appears to be,” “It’s all in your mind,” ” It was no big deal.”

All these defensive postures have the effect of muddying the emotional waters. They  obscure our true shortcomings, flaws, and mistakes, and require that we be loved at a shallow level- the level of self deception-and not at the depth of our emotional integrity. When we own up to our mistakes, we ask that we be loved in the full measure of our humanness, imperfect though we may be. Defensiveness is a way of keeping a relationship problem going. Apology gives closure, opening the path to forgiveness and a new beginning. Most of us can never apologize enough. Apology-when it is genuine and comes the heart-is one of the quickest healers of any-sized rift, the perfect bandage for every wound in relationship.

“Forgive One Another”

03 Aug

raymund |  August 3rd,2010 | forgive |  No Comments »

"Forgiveness" To forgive is to see the person who has offended you in an entirely  different way, through the eyes of charity and love. This is difficult,  but life-transforming task, for forgiveness breathes new life into a  relationship and changes the chemistry between you from stale to  sweet. In a real sense, forgiveness begins with yourself, with  understanding that despite your best intentions, you too will fail, will  find yourself doing the terrible things you thought only your enemies  were capable of doing. To see yourself with your compassion in spite  of your failures is the beginning of  forgiveness for others. For we  can  never take back into our hearts the person who has wounded us  unless we can first be kind to ourselves about our own offenses.

Forgiveness requires emotional maturity and a willingness to move into the future. To forgive is to start over,  in a different place, to behave from into depths of your heart as if  the bad thing never happened. In this sense forgiveness is a creative act for it asks that you create a new relationship. Starting now. This requires a deep internal transformation. Forgiveness is not forgetting-papering over the words or actions that wounded you. Rather, it is being willing to expand your heart so much that you can look at the wounding thing from a different, elevated perspective. To lift yourself up from the good/bad person view of life to the place from which you can realize that we are all trying as hard as we can, but we are all flawed. We all partake of the imperfections of human condition and we all have done or will do terrible, unforgivable things to one another.

“AMA Dagupan’s New Wave of Innovation” theme of the 2010 AMA Dagupan Organizational Week

30 Jul

raymund |  July 30th,2010 | AMA Dagupan |  No Comments »

"AMA"

Again and again,there will always be something that comes from the heart of the Lost Writer herself…

It’s not that away from fingertips to imagine a single node of light shining in the middle of its historic boundaries,brightening up every coverage its splendor could reach.And like any source of futuristic acclamation,AMA Dagupan stays to be a homeland of new and promising technological innovations suited for the mission of delivering high-quality educational experience to its countless homegrown students…striving,soaring,and keeping their way on top of their dreams.

AMA Dagupan has always been looking forward in developing young minds to brilliant nerves-tagged as conquerors of today’s technology-based real world businesses.In the implementation of its creative approaches for building student strengths and character,AMA Dagupan focuses on training its talented children to become highly in demand IT Professionals of the urban living.The campus commits to giving the best mode of instructions and faculty line-up,taking the lead to making you the best programmer,web designer,network administrator,systems analyst,and engineer that you can be…inheriting such huge opportunities attached to its improved and knowledge-packed IT-based learning system.The school is equipping itself with more facilities and services to meet halfway with the growing needs of students for better tools and resources,thereby making their study more fun and enjoyable.With this,much concern is put on crafting their abilities to think creatively,analyze system complexities,and be productive as they should in the actual job-perfoming time.Along with these magnificent boosts from the “largest educational institution in Asia“,the AMA family offers the infinite and interactive ways of keeping its students in touch within a friendly environment by conducting computer-related seminars,sportsfest,IT Olympics,inter-school social gatherings,extensive job training,and educational visits to places of great exploration…with the goal of promoting camaraderie and sportsmanship among different courses and levels all in the name of alliance and unity.

More than ever,AMA Dagupan continues to be a hub of great nurture in putting our humble beginnings to real-life victories by welcoming everyone to the portal of college life with its New Wave of Innovation.

“Today”

14 Jul

raymund |  July 14th,2010 | today |  1 Comment »

"Today"

Mend a quarrel. Search out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspiction and replace it with a trust. Write a love letter. Share some tresure. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in a word or deed.Keep a promise. Find the time. Forego a grudge. Forgive an enemy. Listen. Apologize if you were wrong.Try to understand. Flout envy. Examine your demands on others. Think first of someone else. Appreciate, be kind, be gentle.Laugh a little more.Deserve confidence. Take up arms against malice. Decry complacency. Express your gratitude. Workship your God.Gladden the heart of a child. Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth. Speak your love. Speak  it again. Speak it still again.Speak it still once again.
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